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THREE MEN AND A LITTLE LADY

A warm, wonderfully acted comedy about love, family, and commitment.

1990PGBuena VistaComedy
Worth the trip — middle school and up.
ENTERTAINMENT QUALITY ★★★★ 4 / 4 Wonderfully humorous and marvelously well-acted.
FAMILY CONTENT Discernment −1 on the +4 to −4 scale Discernment: mild adult themes, few sexual situations, and four obscenities; parents should decide for younger children.
BEST FOR Families with middle-schoolers and older viewers who can handle mild adult themes and occasional obscenity.
NOT FOR Families seeking a movie entirely free of sexual innuendo, implied promiscuity, or obscenity.
CONTENT IN ONE LINE Four obscenities, implied promiscuity, sexual innuendo, and adult relationship themes.
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Should You Watch It?

This is a four-star family comedy with a surprisingly serious heart. It is joyful, funny, precocious, and warmly acted, especially in the relationship between Mary and the three men who have become her fathers. The movie also shows that adult themes can be handled humorously without graphic sex, nudity, or heavy profanity.

The family arrangement is complicated, and the story briefly raises concerns that it might undermine traditional families. Instead, it argues for monogamous marriage, lifelong commitment, and raising children within that commitment. The few sexual situations are handled mildly, with no bedroom scenes, nudity, or near nudity.

You can watch it with older children and adults if four obscenities, implied promiscuity, and sexual innuendo are acceptable for your family.

The Story

NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISES

Five years after Mary was left on the doorstep of three bachelor roommates, she now lives with all three men in a New York brownstone. Jack is her biological father, but Mary considers Jack, Peter, and Michael her daddies.

When Mary's mother, Sylvia, receives an opportunity to perform in London, she believes their unusual family arrangement must change. A new engagement, a move overseas, and Mary's future place in the family force the three devoted fathers to decide how far they will go for the little girl they love.

Is It Any Good?

Four stars means this comedy is an excellent example of its kind. It is wonderfully humorous and marvelously well-acted, with a warm emotional center built around Mary and the three men who care for her.

The movie's comedy grows naturally from the responsibilities of parenthood. One especially funny sequence involves a daddy feeding baby Mary while wearing a rain slicker and welder's helmet with a face shield. The film's emotional depth also gives its family story more weight than a simple bachelor comedy.

The Worldview

The film begins with a family situation that might seem likely to undermine traditional families: one child is being raised in a household shared by three men, while her mother considers marriage to another man. Yet the story ultimately argues the opposite. It presents monogamous marriage and having children with one's spouse for life as the highest social order, and it treats love as powerful enough to overcome difficult circumstances.

The movie also shows how a child's sense of belonging can be affected when her family differs from those around her. Mary considers all three men her fathers, and the three men discover that they cannot live without her. The story values devotion, responsibility, marriage, and the lifelong care of children.

That vision aligns with Scripture's design for marriage and family: “Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh” (Genesis 2:24).

The Content Guide

The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.

Content Summary

4 obscenities, implied promiscuity and sexual innuendo

Talk About It

Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.

01

The three men discover that loving Mary means accepting responsibility for her. What does Scripture teach about caring for children and others entrusted to us?

Proverbs 22:6 · 1 Timothy 5:8
02

The movie presents lifelong marriage as the highest social order. What does God intend marriage to be, and how does commitment protect a family?

Genesis 2:24 · Matthew 19:4–6
03

Mary feels confused because her family looks different from those around her. How can families show compassion when someone feels different or left out?

Romans 12:15–16 · Philippians 2:3–4
04

The characters face difficult choices about love, marriage, and family. How should wisdom and truth guide major decisions?

James 1:5 · Proverbs 3:5–6

The Final Word

This is a funny, tender, well-acted comedy that treats family responsibility and lifelong marriage with unusual respect. Its four obscenities, implied promiscuity, and sexual innuendo call for parental discernment, but the movie’s warmth and moral vision make it a strong choice for older children and adults. WORTH THE TRIP — MIDDLE SCHOOL AND UP.

THE VERDICT Worth the trip — middle school and up.
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