GIRLS LIKE GIRLS
A well-acted teen romance wrapped around a wicked, lust-driven worldview.
Should You Watch It?
No. Here's why, plainly. GIRLS LIKE GIRLS has real craft in it — some scenes, especially a reconciliation between a grieving teenage girl and her estranged father, are genuinely well-acted and land emotionally. But the film's purpose is to make you root for, and feel with, a romantic and sexual relationship between two teenage girls, and it pursues that purpose through strong, repeated, perverse kissing scenes that read as engineered for arousal rather than storytelling.
The film also frames any discomfort with homosexuality as narrow-minded, and even its "cop-out" ending — a girl who never publicly claims her love, out of shame the movie treats as a problem to overcome — exists to argue that the only failure here is not being out and proud. Add frequent foul language and underage drinking, and there's no responsible way to hand this to your family, or to watch it yourself expecting your conscience to come away unscathed.
One sentence: skip it.
The Story
NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISESColey, a lonely, shy teenage girl still grieving her mother's death, is living with the estranged father she resents. At a lakeside swim party, popular girl Sonja draws her out of her shell, and a tentative friendship begins. As the summer goes on, that friendship deepens into something more — and Sonja starts saying "Olive juice," a cutesy stand-in for "I love you" that she can't quite bring herself to say outright.
Is It Any Good?
Three stars means this is a competently made, often affecting drama — and that's exactly what makes it worth a warning rather than a shrug. The scenes between Coley and her father are well-acted and genuinely moving, and much of the teenage friendship-turned-romance is engaging on a craft level. But the film's structure serves its message more than its story: the last scenes, including the moment the movie has been building toward, amount to a cop-out, pulling back from the bold declaration it spent ninety minutes setting up. The result is a well-made vehicle for a worldview the filmmakers clearly wanted you to absorb, not just watch.
The Worldview
This film is Romantic in the old, capital-R sense: it trusts feeling and desire as the truest guide to identity and love, and it treats any resistance to that — shame, discomfort, a strict mother, a watching world — as the villain of the story. It is also lawless in the literal sense: it never weighs homosexual desire against any standard outside the characters' own hearts, and it gently mocks the idea that anyone's negative view of homosexuality could be right rather than narrow-minded. Layered on top are light, somewhat vague feminist notes — one male suitor is a jerk, another is not — that do little to balance the film's central persuasion.
To its credit, the movie doesn't only preach. The reconciliation between Coley and her father is tender and true: he did not abandon her the way she believed, and the scene lands because it's honest about grief and misunderstanding. That thread reflects something real and good — a father's quiet faithfulness. But the film spends far more of its energy building sympathy for a relationship, and repeated bedroom scenes, that Scripture calls sin, and it never lets that word near the story.
The ache under all of it is real: the desire to be known, chosen, and loved without shame. That longing is God-given — but Scripture locates its answer not in whatever feels true to us, but in the God who "created them male and female" and who offers a love that "does not envy," "is not arrogant," and "rejoices with the truth" (1 Corinthians 13:4, 6).
The Content Guide
The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.
Dominant Worldview and Other Worldview Content/Elements
Very strong Romantic, antinomian (or lawless) worldview with some politically correct elements very strongly promotes lustful lesbian behavior for teenagers and implies that people’s negative attitudes toward homosexuality are wrong or narrow minded and includes strong underage alcohol use, but there is a heartfelt and well-acted scene of reconciliation between teenage girl and her estranged father who now is her adult guardian (he tells her that her mother, who apparently committed suicide for some unknown reason, didn’t want him to stay so he didn’t abandon the girl like she thinks he did, but she never tells him in the movie about her lesbian affair with another teenage girl), plus movie has some light feminist overtones but they’re a little vague (a male teenage suitor of one of the girls is a jerk, but a potential teenage suitor of the other girl is not)
Foul Language
12 obscenities (including two “f” words and a few “s” words), five light exclamatory profanities such as OMG, and teenage girl gets sick and vomits into toilet after drinking too much one night
Violence
It’s implied a teenage girl’s mother committed suicide
Sex
Strong illicit sex and lust includes several scenes of passionate lesbian kissing on and off three or so beds between two teenage girls and between one of the teenage girls and a young adult woman on the woman’s bed (the two females have stripped down to their bras during the latter scene), a somewhat vaguely implied oral sex scene between the teenage girl and the young adult woman during the heavy lesbian kissing scene on the woman’s bed in her apartment, and a male suitor and the other teenage girl are seen passionately kissing in two scenes though in the second scene the girl makes him stop because he’s a jerk and her lust has been transformed into perverted lesbian desires, plus teenage girl’s restaurant boss introduces her to his male “boyfriend” (his words) before the two men walk away together to go home for the night
Nudity
Upper teenage male nudity at swimming scenes and some teenage girls are wearing bikinis in same scenes, and a teenage girl and a young adult woman are in their bras during a strong lesbian kissing
Alcohol Use
Underage alcohol use and drunkenness in a few scenes
Smoking and/or Drug Use and Abuse
No smoking but there’s a scene of marijuana smoking between a teenage girl and a young adult woman, who picks up the teenage girl and takes her to her apartment’s bedroom;
Miscellaneous Immorality
Teenage girl is hostile and has a rebellious attitude toward her estranged father (the father has become her guardian after her mother died about a year before the movie begins), plus teenage girl begins a friendship and then a lesbian affair with another teenage girl, but the other teenage girl becomes aloof and badly hurts her feelings (SPOILER: the teenage girl is a popular girl at school who does dance competitions on the side and her mother is a strong disciplinarian so the shame of engaging in lesbian behavior prevents her, according to the politically correct movie, from becoming publicly committed to the teenage girl).
Talk About It
Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.
Coley's father didn't abandon her the way she assumed — the truth was more complicated and more faithful than she believed. Have you ever misjudged someone's love because you didn't know the full story?
1 Corinthians 13:7 · Proverbs 18:13The film treats shame over the girls' relationship as the villain of the story. How does the Bible distinguish between destructive shame and the conviction God uses to lead us toward Him?
2 Corinthians 7:10 · Romans 8:1Sonja can't bring herself to say "I love you" out loud, using "Olive juice" instead. What's the difference between real love and the fear of being fully known?
1 John 4:18 · 1 Corinthians 13:4–7This movie asks viewers to root for a relationship Scripture calls sin, while giving little space to another view. How do we love people navigating same-sex attraction without affirming what God calls sin?
John 8:11 · Romans 12:2The Final Word
There's real talent on screen here — a father-daughter reconciliation that earns its tears, performances that feel true. But talent in service of a wicked agenda is still a wicked agenda, and this film spends its craft persuading you toward something God's Word calls sin, without ever letting that word into the room. Our answer stands: skip it. Looking for something to watch with your family instead? Start here:.