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HAPPINESS FOR BEGINNERS

A warm, funny hike home to joy — with a mouthful of language.

2023(Not yet rated)103 minutesNetflixRomantic Comedy
Wait for home — adults only.
ENTERTAINMENT QUALITY ★★★★ 4 / 4 Beautifully made, funny, genuinely touching.
FAMILY CONTENT Caution −2 on the +4 to −4 scale Not for children or teens; adults should know what they're getting into.
CONTENT LEVELS NONE → HEAVY
Language Heavy
Violence Light
Sex Light
Nudity None
BEST FOR Adults who can weather heavy language and want a kind, engaging romantic comedy at home.
NOT FOR Children, and anyone avoiding pervasive profanity, a nature prayer, or a homosexual character.
CONTENT IN ONE LINE Lots of foul language, a prayer to "Mother Nature," and a homosexual supporting character — wrapped around a warm, mostly innocent story about not going through life alone.
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Should You Watch It?

Here's the honest tension. This is, by the numbers, a four-star film — a Netflix romantic comedy so well made, well cast, and genuinely touching that we'd happily recommend it, if it weren't for what comes out of its characters' mouths.

The story itself is mostly innocent and kind. A joyless divorcée takes a two-week hike to rediscover herself, and finds — instead of solitude — a colorful group of fellow travelers who teach her that living life alone rather than supporting others is the wrong path. The lesson lands without ever turning saccharine.

But the dialogue carries a heavy load of foul language, a hike leader leads a prayer to "Mother Nature," and one supporting character is homosexual. None of that makes this a film for kids or younger teens.

So: if you're an adult who can look past pervasive profanity to enjoy a warm, funny, beautifully shot romance, this one's an easy stream at home — where you control the room. Choosing for the whole family? Choose something else.

The Story

NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISES

Helen is newly divorced, uptight, and joyless. So she signs up for a two-week hiking trip in rural Connecticut — solitude, fresh air, and time to figure out her life's next chapter.

Solitude isn't in the cards. Her goofy younger brother's best friend, Jake — a kind, good-looking doctor who's long carried a crush on her — hears she's going and joins the hike without telling her. Helen is not pleased. Then there's the rest of the group: an airheaded day trader, a Wall Street speed-walker, a woman who can't keep her vow of silence, and a tour guide who talks like a hippie. The trail does the rest.

Is It Any Good?

Four stars, and they're earned. This is polished, satisfying filmmaking. The supporting characters are exceptionally well-drawn and acted — the audience laughs with them and finds them emotionally relatable — and each hides a deeper longing that surfaces in touching moments that never turn cloying.

The scenery is gorgeous. The music score is inventive and country-flavored. The funny lines come frequently and land. And writer-director Vicky Wight pulls it all together into a package that's both entertaining and inspirational — a filmmaker to watch.

That the craft is this strong is exactly why the content problems sting. The comedy, the warmth, and the emotional payoff are all here, working. It's a very good movie that spends its considerable goodwill unwisely on language it never needed.

The Worldview

At heart, this film believes something true: that we aren't meant to go through life alone. Helen's whole arc is a movement out of isolation and toward other people — learning that supporting others, not walling herself off, is the path to real joy. That's a moral instinct Scripture affirms, and the film delivers it with kindness rather than preaching.

But the worldview underneath is mixed. Alongside its moral and romantic elements runs a pagan streak: the tour guide, played mostly for comedy, leads the confused group in a prayer to "Mother Nature," bowing their heads to creation rather than the Creator. It's treated lightly, but it's there.

The film also includes a homosexual supporting character — a warm, funny man who says he finds another man attractive. The movie presents him affectionately as one of its most likable figures; viewers should know the film treats his orientation as simply part of the group, and weigh that as they will.

The longing this movie names so well — for connection, for a way out of loneliness — is real, and it points past the trail. We were made for one another, yes, but first for the God who "sets the lonely in families" (Psalm 68:6) and who declared from the start that "it is not good that the man should be alone" (Genesis 2:18).

Movieguide® worldview codes: Pa, Ro, B, FR, ACap, Ho, LLL, V, S, AA, M — preserved for our database, awards research and the annual Report to the Entertainment Industry. What the codes mean →

The Content Guide

The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.

Dominant Worldview and Other Worldview Content/Elements

Mixed pagan worldview with Romantic and moral elements,

Foul Language

18 obscenities and 13 light profanities

Violence

Character falls through a rotten log and breaks his leg and then passes out when he hits his head; some verbal references to past violence; the lead character develops a bloody blister on her heel and cuts her forearm badly on a sharp rock, but it’s not shown in a graphic way

Sex

One side male character is a homosexual and says he finds another man attractive, and a man and woman kiss passionately

Alcohol Use

A groom is drunk at a wedding and makes a foolish spectacle of himself

Smoking and/or Drug Use and Abuse

No smoking or drugs;

Miscellaneous Immorality

Female lead is divorced.

Talk About It

Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.

01

Helen's whole journey is about learning she can't do life alone. Where in your own life are you tempted to wall yourself off — and what does God say about that instinct?

Genesis 2:18 · Ecclesiastes 4:9–10
02

The tour guide leads a prayer to "Mother Nature." How is worshiping creation different from worshiping the Creator who made it — and why does the difference matter?

Romans 1:20–25 · Psalm 19:1
03

Helen begins the film joyless and uptight. Where does she look for joy, and where does the Bible say lasting joy actually comes from?

Psalm 16:11 · Nehemiah 8:10
04

The film is full of kindness and mutual support among strangers. What does Scripture ask of how we carry one another's burdens?

Galatians 6:2 · Romans 12:10

The Final Word

This is the frustrating kind of film: genuinely well made, genuinely warm, and genuinely worth an adult's evening — held back by language it didn't need and a worldview that wanders. For grown-ups who can look past all that, our answer is wait for home — adults only, where you set the terms. Planning family movie night instead? Start with our latest family-friendly picks.

THE VERDICT Wait for home — adults only.
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