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IS THIS THING ON?

A tender divorce-comeback story buried under near-constant crude, profane jokes.

2025R124 minutesSearchlight Pictures/Walt Disney CompanyComedy
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ENTERTAINMENT QUALITY ★★★★ 3 / 4 Funny, touching, and superbly acted.
FAMILY CONTENT Excessive −3 on the +4 to −4 scale Excessive and ultimately unacceptable; the language and lewd humor overwhelm the movie's good heart.
CONTENT LEVELS NONE → HEAVY
Language Heavy
Violence None
Sex Moderate
Nudity Light
BEST FOR No one, per the source's own judgment — the content is simply too heavy to recommend, whatever the craft achieves.
NOT FOR Families, teens, or anyone avoiding heavy profanity and strong sexual humor.
CONTENT IN ONE LINE Near-constant strong profanity (96 obscenities, 77 of them "f" words) and strong lewd sexual comments overwhelm an otherwise warm, pro-marriage story.
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Should You Watch It?

Here's the tension in this one: the movie is genuinely good, and the movie is genuinely too much. Alex, a fortysomething accountant whose wife has decided to divorce him, stumbles into stand-up comedy and finds that talking about his pain onstage makes him a better, more present husband and father offstage. That's a story worth telling — funny, often touching, with superb performances and a feel-good ending that actually believes marriages can be rebuilt.

But the vehicle carrying that message is loaded with excessive foul language and strong lewd humor, enough that even a review sympathetic to the film's heart calls it "excessive and ultimately unacceptable." Ninety-six obscenities, most of them "f" words, plus repeated crude sexual jokes, don't leave much room for anyone trying to protect their conscience or their household from an evening of that.

A good story doesn't redeem a script this saturated with profanity. Skip it — and look for a comeback story that doesn't ask you to wade through this much crudeness to find it.

The Story

NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISES

Alex is a fortysomething accountant whose wife, Tess, has decided to divorce him. One lonely night after dropping off their kids, a friend talks him into an open-mike slot at a comedy club just to dodge the cover charge. Alex starts talking about his divorce — and gets real laughs.

He keeps coming back. And somehow, the laughs start changing him into someone more present, more caring. Tess notices. Whether that's enough to bring them back together — and what happens if she learns why he's changed — is where the story goes from here.

Is It Any Good?

Three stars means this is a well-made film, and the source backs that up: the performances are called superb, the comedy genuinely funny, the emotional beats often touching, and the ending feel-good rather than cynical. It also lands a rare thing for a movie about divorce — a real, stated belief that marriages heading toward the end can still turn around.

The same review that praises all this is blunt about what undoes it: the craft is strong, but the script leans on excessive, frequently strong foul language and lewd humor to get its laughs, and that choice — not any failure of direction or performance — is what keeps a well-made movie from being a recommendable one.

The Worldview

At its center, this film believes something Scripture believes: that honesty can heal what silence and detachment break. Alex's stand-up routine works like confession — he says out loud what he's been avoiding, and naming his pain makes him more attentive to his wife and sons. The film even threads in an instrumental of "Amazing Grace" and a passing line about an actor having once played the Apostle John, small gestures toward a moral frame larger than the joke of the week. The worldview here is light, moral, pro-family, and quietly redemptive: a marriage worth saving, children who matter to their father throughout, a story that refuses to treat divorce as the only ending available.

That frame has limits. The characters inhabit a generally pagan world, and a same-sex male couple appears among the side characters, presented without comment as simply part of the social landscape the film takes for granted. We note that once, as a fact about the film's moral universe, not as a verdict on anyone in it.

The film's real subject — a man who finally tells the truth about his pain and finds his marriage restored because of it — echoes something the Bible says plainly: "Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed" (James 5:16). The longing this movie gets right is real. The way it gets there is not one you should hand your family.

Movieguide® worldview codes: B, C, PaPa, Ho, LLL, SS, N, A, DD, M — preserved for our database, awards research and the annual Report to the Entertainment Industry. What the codes mean →

The Content Guide

The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.

Dominant Worldview and Other Worldview Content/Elements

Light moral, pro-family, redemptive worldview/premise, focusing on a married couple in the midst of a divorce who tentatively decide to get back together when the man starts to overcome his emotional detachment from the world around him, especially from his wife (though he cares about his two sons throughout), with a nice instrumental rendition of “Amazing Grace,” and an actor says he once played the Apostle John in a play, but the characters are generally pagan, and there’s a same-sex male couple among the side characters

Foul Language

At least 96 obscenities (including at least 77 “f” words), five strong profanities using the name of Jesus or Christ, and eight light profanities, plus a close friend of the male lead has a crude nickname that’s repeatedly said

Violence

No violence

Sex

Some strong and light lewd comments about sex, plus implied fornication when a man separated from his wife when she decides to get a divorce sleeps with an unmarried woman in one scene, but man starts seeing his wife again, and they sleep together one night, and chances seem good they’ll get back together, plus two of the man’s male friends are a same-sex couple

Nudity

Brief upper male nudity in at last two scenes

Alcohol Use

Some alcohol use

Smoking and/or Drug Use and Abuse

Brief tobacco smoking, man seems buzzed from a marijuana-laced cookie, and some people are briefly seen to possibly be smoking marijuana;

Miscellaneous Immorality

Man keeps his personal stand-up comedy routines secret from his wife and children (the wife is in the process of divorcing him).

Talk About It

Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.

01

Alex finally becomes honest about his pain — but only in front of strangers at a comedy club, not with his own wife. Why is it often easier to confess to strangers than to the people closest to us?

James 5:16 · Proverbs 28:13
02

Tess notices a real change in Alex before she knows the reason for it. What does this suggest about how honesty, even indirect honesty, changes a person's character?

Ephesians 4:15 · Proverbs 12:22
03

The film treats a troubled marriage as worth fighting to save, even after divorce papers are on the table. What does Scripture say about the value of pursuing reconciliation in a marriage?

1 Corinthians 7:10–11 · Malachi 2:16
04

Alex keeps his stand-up act secret from his family for a season. When does keeping something private become the same as keeping a secret that could damage trust?

Luke 8:17 · Proverbs 3:32

The Final Word

There's a good movie tucked inside this one — a story about confession, honesty, and a marriage worth saving. But the same review that praises its performances and its feel-good ending is honest that the language and lewd humor make it excessive and ultimately unacceptable. Our answer stays the same: skip it. For a family movie night that won't cost you your conscience, start here:.

THE VERDICT Skip it.
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