THE FATHER OF THE BRIDE (2022)
A warm, entertaining family story with adult content concerns.
Should You Watch It?
This is a polished, entertaining remake with a Latino family at its center. Andy Garcia gives a convincing performance as Billy, an immigrant father who has worked hard to build a home and successful business. The story also makes room for family, forgiveness, cultural tradition, and learning to love other people.
The cost is substantial for families. The film includes strong language, sexual references and implications, drinking and implied drunkenness, cigar smoking, lingerie and partial rear nudity, and an implied same-sex attraction. Its worldview is also mixed, with Christian and traditional moral references alongside false New Age religious ideas.
If you are a discerning adult, this can be a worthwhile streaming choice. For children and young teens, choose something else.
The Story
NO SPOILERS — WE KEEP THE SURPRISESBilly and Ingrid Herrera have been attending marriage counseling while facing serious problems in their relationship. Then their daughter Sofia comes home with life-changing news: she is engaged to Adan.
The wedding brings both families together, along with conflicting expectations about money, culture, religion, and tradition. Billy must learn whether he can accept Adan, get along with Adan’s father, and put his family ahead of his own fears and ambitions.
Is It Any Good?
Four stars means this film succeeds strongly as entertainment. It has a distinct feel from the earlier movies, while the Latino family dynamics give the story a different texture.
Andy Garcia does a great job as Billy and is believable as an immigrant father who left Cuba with nothing before building a beautiful home and successful business. The entire movie is entertaining, although it is not as funny as the 1990s version. It remains an effective and enjoyable family drama.
The Worldview
The film presents a loving family and values forgiveness, reconciliation, cultural traditions, and learning to love others. Billy must focus on his marriage and family more than his work, and he fights to preserve moral traditions within his culture.
Its worldview is mixed. The story includes mentions of church, a Catholic priest, God, Christianity, and traditional morality. At the same time, the younger couple wants a New Age “zen yoga” instructor to perform the wedding, and the film includes false theological references to meditation, yoga, and Zen. The New Age wedding does not ultimately take place, but the film treats the couple’s movement away from their Catholic and Christian upbringing as a joke. An implied same-sex attraction also occurs.
The film’s emphasis on forgiveness and restored family relationships connects with Scripture’s call to forgive one another: “As the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive” (Colossians 3:13).
The Content Guide
The specifics — spoilers included by nature — so you can judge for your own family.
Dominant Worldview and Other Worldview Content/Elements
Light mixed worldview with mentions of church, a Catholic priest, God, and traditional morality, mixed with false theological New Age mentions of meditation, yoga, Zen , but not shown (the young couple in the movie want a New Age wedding, but their parents don’t), plus an implied same-sex attraction occurs
Foul Language
Five obscenities, six profanities
Violence
No violence
Sex
There’s an implied same sex attraction in one part of the story, there are mentions and implications of an engaged couple sleeping together before marriage, and woman leads man into a room, but nothing happens
Nudity
Go-Go dancers appear in lingerie, with partial rear female nudity
Alcohol Use
Some drinking and implied drunkenness
Smoking and/or Drug Use and Abuse
Smoking of cigars, but no drugs;
Miscellaneous Immorality
Keeping the truth from others occurs.
Talk About It
Questions for the drive home, the dinner table, or the youth group.
Billy has to decide whether family matters more than work and personal expectations. What helps you recognize when good responsibilities have begun crowding out the people God has given you?
Matthew 6:33 · 1 Timothy 5:8The film centers on forgiveness and learning to love people who are difficult to understand. What does biblical forgiveness require, and what does it not require?
Colossians 3:13 · Ephesians 4:31–32The younger generation and older generation disagree about religious and cultural traditions. How can Christians test new ideas while honoring parents and family?
Romans 12:2 · 1 Thessalonians 5:21The characters face pressure to keep difficult truths from one another. When can withholding the truth damage relationships, and how should Christians speak truth lovingly?
Ephesians 4:15 · Proverbs 12:22The Final Word
This is an entertaining, well-acted story about family, forgiveness, and learning to love across differences. Its adult content and mixed worldview make it unsuitable for children and young teens, but discerning adults may find the streaming experience worthwhile. WORTH THE TRIP — ADULTS ONLY. For a family-friendly alternative, see.